Would it be weird to give my girlfriend flowers just for the hell of it?
No special occasion.
18-21, M
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bijouxbroussard · F
@deathfairy Why ?
in my experience when a guy gives gifts and flowers over and over it is compensating and a distraction from how fucked up he is going to treat you in the future. @bijouxbroussard
bijouxbroussard · F
@deathfairy Wow. You’ve had some rather negative experiences.
littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
@bijouxbroussard in almost 7 years i could give her one gift and just from that moment she started ignoring me. :(
In highschool i bought a girl an expensive chocolate from everyone penny i saved. She fed it to her dog.
That's why I don't feel like gifting.
In highschool i bought a girl an expensive chocolate from everyone penny i saved. She fed it to her dog.
That's why I don't feel like gifting.
its the warning signs of a narc. idk, maybe it’s just me but i am weary of men with their gifts. @bijouxbroussard
littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
@deathfairy not in all cases. I understand what you mean. When people are only gifting because they want to be in yours pants. Which is gross. I gifted someone from selfless nature but I still got punishment. Maybe they were using me.
bijouxbroussard · F
@littlepuppywantanewlife Chocolate can make a dog deathly ill. So she sounds like she was not only ungrateful, but stupid.
littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
@bijouxbroussard we were 16 at that time. She never liked me later on. I never thought of her physically. However i got a hard time in life so i won't meet any girls. 🤪😂
sounds like she wasn’t into you to not appreciate your gift. and you’re wasting your energy to not ever “gift someone else and be closed up” you were 16, time to move past that. @littlepuppywantanewlife
bijouxbroussard · F
@deathfairy A narc ? I can understand not trusting a situation where it seems like he’s trying to buy or manipulate her, but in a relationship that’s otherwise healthy, gifts “just because” are really sweet, I think.
littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
@deathfairy what in the other situation. When I know someone as a dear friend for longtime and gave her a gift for her business but since then she started ignoring me.