Since when does wanting to make your partner happy, a bad thing?

[c=#7700B2]got in first argument with my boyfriend a few hours ago. He is angry that I always want to make him happy. He said that I don't put myself first ever and that I need to do things that make me happy... Well making him and those I love happy is what makes me happy.
I don't get how that's a bad thing. Guys confuse me so much [/c]

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bhatjc · 46-50, M

If he is that confuse. Then show him the door

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

[c=#7700B2]nah I think it's sweet that he thinks enough of me to want me to do things that I want.. He was basically doing what I was doing for him except I wasn't really letting him do it without me even realising it[/c]

bhatjc · 46-50, M

Just give it time miss plum. See what he does.

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

[c=#7700B2]personally I was happy with how things were before. I'm not big on making decisions and so on and am more then happy for him to do so (except when it comes to movies) but I'm trying to change and make more decisions for us[/c]

bhatjc · 46-50, M

That is good.