Since when does wanting to make your partner happy, a bad thing?

[c=#7700B2]got in first argument with my boyfriend a few hours ago. He is angry that I always want to make him happy. He said that I don't put myself first ever and that I need to do things that make me happy... Well making him and those I love happy is what makes me happy.
I don't get how that's a bad thing. Guys confuse me so much [/c]

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meemo70 · 51-55, M

it is not a bad thing :) I think he wants the same for you.. he wants you to be happier and that makes him happy... he prioritizes you over himself, be happy :)

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

[c=#7700B2]we are great now. We had a long talk and I see his side of it now and didn't realise that he felt the way he did. I have never had a boyfriend who wants me to put myself first ever, so I guess I got used to doing things a certain way and not thinking of myself so much [/c]

meemo70 · 51-55, M

@PlumBerries: maybe you finally found the right one :) don't lose him..

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

[c=#7700B2]i think I finally did :D[/c]