Since when does wanting to make your partner happy, a bad thing?

got in first argument with my boyfriend a few hours ago. He is angry that I always want to make him happy. He said that I don't put myself first ever and that I need to do things that make me happy... Well making him and those I love happy is what makes me happy.
I don't get how that's a bad thing. Guys confuse me so much

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curiosi · 61-69, F

The problem is you are turning yourself into a slave. It's not pleasant feeling like a slave master.

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

i guess that wouldn't feel pleasant for him