How do you confront a changed partner?

By 'changed', I mean he has stopped taking the time to elaborate on the things he used to mention to me. He used to be so romantic, and now the "spark" is gone.

We're both tired, and I'm sure he isn't seeing or sleeping with anyone else--but I just feel this dying down. Im getting so bored and just tired of seeing the same lame shit every fucking day. I do want to fix things, but how do I let him know without making it seem as if though I want to split?

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blackholemoon

Just tell him how you feel. Be sure you tell him explicitly that you want to try to mend things. From there, try to find different things to do with him as far as dates go. You need excitement in a relationship to keep things interesting, but don't grow dependent on the fun of unknowns to keep you two together. It should be about you two when it comes down to it.