How do you confront a changed partner?

By 'changed', I mean he has stopped taking the time to elaborate on the things he used to mention to me. He used to be so romantic, and now the "spark" is gone.

We're both tired, and I'm sure he isn't seeing or sleeping with anyone else--but I just feel this dying down. Im getting so bored and just tired of seeing the same lame shit every fucking day. I do want to fix things, but how do I let him know without making it seem as if though I want to split?

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Flutterby

Have you changed in your behaviours toward him since the beginning as well? Could it be that his changes, reflect your own?
We all change, it's how we adapt to the changes that makes the difference.
And if you are going to talk to him (I find "confront" has such a charge and negative connotation), make it about you, and how you feel about the changes, instead of making it about things he has done "wrong".