This is a lot harder than I thought it would be.

I feel like it’s been easy to talk to people sometimes but then I always can’t seem to get to that next level of like actually officially dating anyone. I don’t know if I’m worried about like the commitment or wondering if I’m really with the right person or not. There just always feels like there’s something holding me back from taking things to that next state of actually falling in love with another person.

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Sunflower2021 · 31-35, F

You won't know unless you try. I remember some years back I really liked this guy. We hung out a few times and occasionally texted. I really wanted things to move forward but I didn't feel like he wanted it. I ended up with someone else. Years later I had a kid. I told him and that completely stopped us talking. I would occasionally see him in the store. I kind of ignored him one time because I stopped feeling the way I did. I honestly wished something would have happened with us but he just didn't pursue anything. I don't regret it but just would have liked to see how things would have played out. So you should try before you keep pushing potential relationships away. And if it continues to happen you'll find it harder to find someone.

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

I don't think there's any point in dating a person you didn't fall in love with. But that's just me. 🤷‍♀️ Maybe it's a bit naive perspective.

DRtist102 · 31-35, M

@CrazyMusicLover it’s just that I don’t really have anyone in my life right now that I feel like I have that kind of connection with. So I’ve been trying to just meet new people and see if anything clicks with them to maybe try to have something more than just a friendship.

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