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Is it wrong to tell someone you went on a date with your not attracted to them ?

I don't want this person to keep his hopes up that he will see me again.
SW-User
just say you don't want to go out again, you don't have to mention the lack of attraction
NodandaWink · 51-55, M
You don't have to tell them you are not attracted you can say you didn't feel a connection.But I agree you shouldn't string them along till they quit asking. You've got rip off the band aid, so to speak.
SW-User
Not at all, you need to keep your options open and he needs to hit the road
Gigi1425 · 51-55, F
He did lol
SW-User
@Gigi1425: Good for him :)
I think it probably better to go with the old, "[i]its not you, it's me[/i] thing.
Gigi1425 · 51-55, F
That would be great except he's on the same dating site as me and I'm not turning my off.
melbeacher · 56-60, M
No not at all. I think it is better to be honest than to pretend to like someone.
firefall · 61-69, M
No, it's fine - absolutely the best course of action, in fact.
SW-User
I wouldn't do it..it doesn't make it wrong tho..🤔
No it might hurt them a little but it's way better to be honest and not strong them along. It sucks but it's better in the long run.
SagePoet · 61-69, M
Women have told me that when I was dating. It hurt but rather she told me than lead me on
Gigi1425 · 51-55, F
@SagePoet exactly what I think
TeenWonder · F
Why would you go on a date with him then?
Gigi1425 · 51-55, F
Blind date
TeenWonder · F
Oh
DanteD · 51-55, M
Let him down gently...only tell if he presses..but I think he already knows...
Goralski · 51-55, M
At least give him an pity hand job: (
Gigi1425 · 51-55, F
Not going to happen
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Reverend · M
Not wrong at all, it's honesty.
AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
I think it's fine

 
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