How many men have been punched, slapped, pinched, etc, by awoman and told they had to "accept it" OR they weren't a "man"?>

Ah, a feminist, like me. I figure woman can do everything I can, but at the same time that means I if a woman uses force against me, I can reply with force of the same level?

Long ago, dated a couple of women who loved to slap, hit, and punch -- IF I complained I was told I wasn't s REAL man if I noticed how much a woman hurt me. PMHG., O took my finger and flicked one of them on the head in response and iy eas like I'd hauled off an hit her. Tjat'
s when i got the old stanbdard lecture about how men are meant not to fell, can be hit, etc. etc. etc, and if you weren't a "real man" you just dealt with it and accepted the pain???" Played tjhat stupid game for years until Ia lady who i din;t want yo sleep with locked m,e in her bedroom becvause she thought I -- a MAN -- would never say no. O had to actually pry my caR KEYS FROM HER HAND BECAUSE she had bee broguth up to believe idf a swman said yes, no opner would ever say no -- she couldn;t simply believe I just wanted ouity of gthe room?