Question for men, if you got stressed out at work and many things going on in your life

Would you prefer to be left alone for awhile or have someone comfort you, cheer you up, and tell you that things will be alright?

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MasterofNone · 26-30, M

I'm fine left alone. Having some relaxing company is great. But please no "things will be alright" type consolations. I know things will pass. It's obvious

DeecemberGirl · 31-35, F

@MasterofNone then what someone supposed to say to make you feel better?

MasterofNone · 26-30, M

@DeecemberGirl How can you say anything about which I know better than you ? You can just listen, hug and distract with other awesome things like food or TV. Even force a stressed one to follow good habits because they are not taking care of themselves.

canusernamebemyusername · M

Both actually. Like if I need space I will literally just say that. But if I don't it's probably a sign I want to be comforted. It just depends on each situation.

DeecemberGirl · 31-35, F

@canusernamebemyusername what if he didn't reply my chat but he posts story on whatsapp instead

PhilDeep · 51-55, M

Depends who it is. Mostly left alone. But if in a relationship some physical closeness without having to talk about the problem could help.

DeecemberGirl · 31-35, F

@PhilDeep what am i supposed to do if he's not wanting to meet? :(

Can I tell you the detail on pm?

Northwest · M

There’s really no set formula. My partner should acknowledge the stressful situation I’m in, and say: I am here to support, not overwhelm you. What would you like me to do?