How does this sound?

@Penny Ghosting is a feminine thing to do. Men are direct and to the point.

@SW-User oh please. spare me your untrue generalizations. ghosting would probably be kinder imo. (froma casual acquaintance) maybe you're like that but def not all men.

@Penny Ghosting kind? 😂

I'd hate to see what you do when you're nasty. No men are direct. If one isn't, I don't include him in that description.

@SW-User were you being sarcastic or something?? i personally would rather be ghosted than lied to and the truth in this matter wouldnt be so nice.

@Penny No sarcasm here. Ghosting is a horrible thing to do to anyone and wastes their time trying to figure out what's going on especially if the date went well according to them.

Truth is a better way to go about it and what OP wrote is not harsh in the slightest. He isn't being mean, just stating that he wasn't vibing with her thats all. How she takes it is a different story of course.

@SW-User he's obviously lying. would you rather be ignored or lied to your face? cmon. direct and straightforward my ass

@Penny How is he lying?

@SW-User it was nice to meet you (um all he could think about was how fat she was) i had a good time (if that was true hed want to at least be friends) it was such a great conversation i wanted to continue it to tell you that i dont want anything to do with you anymore

@Penny What book did you get that nonsense from?

1) you don't know that she's fat at all.

2) He went on a date looking for a girl TO DATE, not a friendship. Men don't friendzone, again, that's a feminine thing to do.

3) We can have a great conversation and still lack sexual chemistry.

@SW-User a different post he made not too long ago

@SW-User she's actually right about that (my last post). She looked nothing like her pictures, she was very much overweight, had a little mustache(I understand some women are hairier than others but still), and was grunting a lot while eating. I wasn't attracted at all even though I still stayed (conversation was great). I felt bad but I know that our lifestyles would definitely not be compatible. I'm a fitness nut and I like to take care of myself no matter how busy I get.

And that's fair. If she's fat and that simply isn't your thing, no need to drag things any further than they need to. You don't have to mention her physical appearance here, the aim isn't to hurt someone's feelings (That's why we don't ghost) but if she prods, let her know her physical appearance just isn't what you're looking for. How she takes that is up to her.@Penny @somedude15