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JP1119 · 36-40, M
Was he really sad you cut him off?
JP1119 · 36-40, M
@gracek93 Yeah doesn’t sound like it. I might have second guessed it if he had sounded sad, but I think it was a good choice. On dating sites are lots of scammers and frauds. Also I can’t really imagine myself being so apparently interested in someone so quickly, especially without having met in person. I’ve never texted anyone multiple times every day, and whenever I have shown a fraction of that amount of early interest I’ve always been quickly rejected. That is really suspicious that he never told you the plans for your dates. I’m curious what he would have said if you’d given him a chance to lay out the plans when he was “about to call you” to tell you them.
gracek93 · 31-35, F
@JP1119 right ? I thought it was extremely weird that he was basically telling me all of these things and how he knows we will have a great future together etc when we hadn’t even met. He even told me he can’t wait to introduce me to his parents and can’t wait to meet my brother when he comes into town, etc. idk i just felt like that was really weird but then his calling and texting actions were so consistent it threw me off guard. I also thought it was weird he didn’t have a specific place or time in mind for our Saturday date that was supposed to happpen last week either.
I’m just kinda confused why someone would want to act like that and also how they have the time to call someone every morning and night without the intention of moving things along. So weird
I’m just kinda confused why someone would want to act like that and also how they have the time to call someone every morning and night without the intention of moving things along. So weird
Wallflow3r · 26-30, F
I think you made the right decision I would have done the same.. Did he come out of a frosted flakes cereal box cause he sounds like a complete flake Lol he sounds too shy to take you on a date so don’t waste your time. I had the same happen to me once, we would always plan to hang out then on the day of he wouldn’t reply to me then a week later he would message again and the same thing would happen. It’s just a waste of time …
The right guy will come along and he will not flake out on you. : )
The right guy will come along and he will not flake out on you. : )
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
@Wallflow3r definitely... It's all just practise ...
Originalme · 26-30, F
If I were you, I wouldn't waste anymore time thinking about it or stressing. Being inconsistent, hot and cold, and giving off mixed signals and not putting enough effort are huge red flags in my book. Important thing is to be realistic and to not allow wishful thinking to get the best of you. Set standards and boundaries, value yourself and don't settle for anything less.
CastorTroy · 31-35, M
QueenandCrown · 41-45, F
I normally meet guys the following day, even if it was a meet and greet. I'm in my forties so I'm not trying to waste any time.
He's stringing you along, but I don't know why. It doesn't take much to meet someone if you live close by.
Trust me, you've saved yourself a lot of headache by not taking the bait.
He's stringing you along, but I don't know why. It doesn't take much to meet someone if you live close by.
Trust me, you've saved yourself a lot of headache by not taking the bait.
justanothername · 51-55, M
where is the guy from? Does he live in your city? Any time a guy comes up with as many excuses as he does and always manages not to meet you for a date.. You KNOW he is a fake.
gracek93 · 31-35, F
Yes we live a mile from each other in nyc @justanothername
justanothername · 51-55, M
@gracek93 And he still hasn't managed to meet you for a drink or anything?
marsbar · F
This sounds all too familiar to me since I’m dating as well & meeting men on apps.
I’d feel the same way as you. It gets to a point where enough is enough, especially when his words don’t coincide with his actions. He’s 34, not 20.
I’d feel the same way as you. It gets to a point where enough is enough, especially when his words don’t coincide with his actions. He’s 34, not 20.
SW-User
If their actions don't match their words they are wasting your time. It's a good idea to move on
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
Guys as a general rule don't plan like we do...
@ozgirl512 yah im slob x3 x'3
iamnikki · 31-35, F
TLDR sorry, wanted to help
Monday on a tuesday!!