I’ve been talking to this guy for weeks and no date plans?
Hey everyone, so I am in a confusing situation. Two weeks ago a guy and I matched and started chatting. The first day we started chatting online he asked for my number and called me. Then he asked me on a date for the next Saturday which was exactly a week from day we started chatting. During the week, he called me and texted me everyday from morning to say good morning, in the middle of the day, and in the evening. His consistency made me believe that he was so into me. He even told me that he just feels so much chemistry with me and that he has a feeling when we meet things will go really well. So I was extremely excited for the date because he had hyped it up so much.
Throughout the week he kept counting down the days until Saturday and told me how excited he is to see me. Then as Saturday came closer, I asked him what the plans are for our date and he would give vague responses. I thought maybe he’s just busy so I’ll just let him make the plans on his time. The Friday evening before our date on Saturday he messages me and says that he has a crisis at work as a contract fell through so he and his team has to work all weekend. He kept telling me how disappointed he is and that he’s really sorry and that he would make it up to. I was extremely disappoint but I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and he said we would see each other on Wednesday or Thursday of the next week.
We continued on and he continued to text me and call me every morning and evening. During our calls he would talk about the future and how we will be going on many dates. He even started to plan a vacation and I told him that we had never even met so how would he even know. And he told me he just knows and has a feeling that things will go very well between us. I told him I still have to see what happens after we meet.
Anyway, this week Tuesday night comes around and he still didn’t make any date plans when he told me that we would be seeing each other on Thursday or Friday. I believe that a 34 year old man knows that no woman would want a last minute date planned. Also the fact that he didn’t have any plan just makes it clear that all of this was fake. I messaged him on the Tuesday evening and asked him why he hasn’t said anything about our date tomorrow. And he told me he was about to call me so we can plan the date. I said that’s not acceptable for me and that he’s not the right guy for me so I’d rather not waste my time anymore or his.
I guess I just want to vent about my experience as well as hear other peoples thoughts on this. Do you think I made the right decision? Or do you think I was too harsh about it?
Throughout the week he kept counting down the days until Saturday and told me how excited he is to see me. Then as Saturday came closer, I asked him what the plans are for our date and he would give vague responses. I thought maybe he’s just busy so I’ll just let him make the plans on his time. The Friday evening before our date on Saturday he messages me and says that he has a crisis at work as a contract fell through so he and his team has to work all weekend. He kept telling me how disappointed he is and that he’s really sorry and that he would make it up to. I was extremely disappoint but I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and he said we would see each other on Wednesday or Thursday of the next week.
We continued on and he continued to text me and call me every morning and evening. During our calls he would talk about the future and how we will be going on many dates. He even started to plan a vacation and I told him that we had never even met so how would he even know. And he told me he just knows and has a feeling that things will go very well between us. I told him I still have to see what happens after we meet.
Anyway, this week Tuesday night comes around and he still didn’t make any date plans when he told me that we would be seeing each other on Thursday or Friday. I believe that a 34 year old man knows that no woman would want a last minute date planned. Also the fact that he didn’t have any plan just makes it clear that all of this was fake. I messaged him on the Tuesday evening and asked him why he hasn’t said anything about our date tomorrow. And he told me he was about to call me so we can plan the date. I said that’s not acceptable for me and that he’s not the right guy for me so I’d rather not waste my time anymore or his.
I guess I just want to vent about my experience as well as hear other peoples thoughts on this. Do you think I made the right decision? Or do you think I was too harsh about it?
31-35, F
