I'm supposed to go on a date tomorrow evening...

And I'm [b][i]anxious af.[/i][/b]

He's the guy that wanted to hurry and meet me. The one that wanted a full body pic. I didn't appreciate being asked that but... Y'know, I don't want to mark someone off just for asking. He didn't pressure me either.

We're supposed to meet tomorrow but I'm soo nervous. Nervous he'll kidnap me or worse. But then I remind myself that I'm overthinking... I'm smarter than I give myself credit for.

I won't leave my drink alone with him. I won't leave with him. I won't be alone with him. Maybe go somewhere else afterward to do some shopping so he can't follow me home but then again, maybe that too is an irrational thought.

Oh my gosh I'm so anxious I feel like I'm going to barf. Calm down, Jupe... Caaaalm dowwwn 😣🤢

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MrPerditus1 · 61-69, M

Being cautious when you haven't met someone before isn't a bad thing. As several have mentioned, let someone know where you're going to be. About how long and when to hear from you. You've thought it all through and yes, you never know who you're really meeting. But being aware of your surroundings is a good thing.

I would say, if you're still really nervous and you have a friend or family member you trust, tell them to call you at a certain time and even go so far as to come up with a safe word that you don't often use, then if anything is wrong while you're on the call with them, you can say it in a sentence that will alert them to something wrong. Just saying if you're that worried, take all precautions.

I'm fairly sure you'll be fine, but it never hurts to be prepared. You're a smart lady and you'll do just fine. I'm wishing you the best and hope you have a great time and that it's just a case of nerves. 🤗 🌷

JupiterDreams · 31-35

@MrPerditus1 Thank you 🤗💞