I'm supposed to go on a date tomorrow evening...

And I'm [b][i]anxious af.[/i][/b]

He's the guy that wanted to hurry and meet me. The one that wanted a full body pic. I didn't appreciate being asked that but... Y'know, I don't want to mark someone off just for asking. He didn't pressure me either.

We're supposed to meet tomorrow but I'm soo nervous. Nervous he'll kidnap me or worse. But then I remind myself that I'm overthinking... I'm smarter than I give myself credit for.

I won't leave my drink alone with him. I won't leave with him. I won't be alone with him. Maybe go somewhere else afterward to do some shopping so he can't follow me home but then again, maybe that too is an irrational thought.

Oh my gosh I'm so anxious I feel like I'm going to barf. Calm down, Jupe... Caaaalm dowwwn 😣🤢

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Adogslife · 61-69, M

Yes, do relax a bit. He’s probably a decent guy and the pic request is not uncommon. It’s just to be sure that you fit within a body type range that’s normal for him.

Immediately on the first date my current gf asked me, within the first few sentences, in her charming English accent, if I was an axe murderer. I laughed and said no, but then asked her if she’d ever had a penchant for boiling bunnies. Guys need to be safe too.

Just give someone you care about his name and phone number. Tell them where you’re going and share your location with them via “find a friend”.

If you’re worried about your drink, I believe they make nail polish that will change color if there’s something in your drink. Maybe check that out on line.

Breakfast and a walk can make a great first date too. Safe. No drinks. No worries about how to “end the evening” either.

Good luck 👍🏻

JupiterDreams · 31-35

@Adogslife Thank you so much 💞🤗

Adogslife · 61-69, M

@JupiterDreams you’re welcome. relax and enjoy