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I'm supposed to go on a date tomorrow evening...

And I'm [b][i]anxious af.[/i][/b]

He's the guy that wanted to hurry and meet me. The one that wanted a full body pic. I didn't appreciate being asked that but... Y'know, I don't want to mark someone off just for asking. He didn't pressure me either.

We're supposed to meet tomorrow but I'm soo nervous. Nervous he'll kidnap me or worse. But then I remind myself that I'm overthinking... I'm smarter than I give myself credit for.

I won't leave my drink alone with him. I won't leave with him. I won't be alone with him. Maybe go somewhere else afterward to do some shopping so he can't follow me home but then again, maybe that too is an irrational thought.

Oh my gosh I'm so anxious I feel like I'm going to barf. Calm down, Jupe... Caaaalm dowwwn 馃槪馃あ
JupiterDreams
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Penny 路 46-50, F
this is why internet dating sucks. like if youve never met them before... did you facetime him or skype first?
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JupiterDreams 路 31-35
@Penny I wouldn't mind waiting mooonths to meet someone, because I'd do LDR. We're going to talk on the phone later, which I feel should be fine 馃槬
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Penny 路 46-50, F
@JupiterDreams please facetime him or somehting for your own safety. i think a lot can be gleaned from someones voice and to actually see them while theyre talking is better. dont be shy you are beautiful no matter what if he rejects you over facetime better than in person too (assuming that you are scared of that)

also- if he wont show you his facebook if he has one then hes hiding something or just wants sex
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JupiterDreams 路 31-35
@Penny I will 馃尯
I'd rather be rejected because I'm honestly more worried about being physically harmed. He hasn't said anything to warrant my anxiety... I've always been nervous about new things so I'm skittish 馃槬
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Penny 路 46-50, F
@JupiterDreams well, these things i suggested arent a 100% that some psycho isnt going to show up in his place but id think itd be safer. especially if you get his facebook. if he has a facebook and theres no one on it then thats a major red flag
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