Have you ever been in an open relationship?

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SW-User

Yes, or more of a love triangle. It was difficult because they spent a lot of time together when I had nothing else to do and only spent time with me if one of them was at work or something. So that made it very imbalanced. But despite that, it was still an experience I miss almost every day.

SW-User

I'm sorry.

SW-User

It's OK. I just hope to find that kind of love again, preferably monogamous that time. (Though I'm still not against the concept of an open relationship, it seems much easier to find balance if only two people are involved.)

Jakey75 · 61-69, M

Was it difficult for you when you knew they were having sex?

SW-User

@Jakey75: a little. Our bonds didn't get nearly as physical as theirs. The emotional bond was amazing and I'm still very grateful for that while it lasted, but it was difficult to hear about their physical intimacy while not getting any myself.