I don't know what to feel

What would you feel if you're the one who's working for 1 and half year and providing and your partner is unemployed and you don't complain that time and force him to work or what and you're just understanding partner but when he got a job he compares it to your job. Like his job is delivering and he is either delivering in a very hot weather or raining. He compares it to your job because you're working in an office. He says like his job is not easy working in a hot weather and makes you feel like he's more tired and your job is easy. I am working 11 hours a day and it is not easy I am tired working and just want to rest but I can't because I have responsibilities. I never complaint before but now he is working he just makes me feel bad I don't know.