Would you take back your Ex if she cheated on you a couple of times and caused you so much pain and its years were apart 10 years

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Mindful · 56-60, F

Did she cheat on any of the last couple of boyfriends too? For some people it’s a lifestyle (don’t tell club), other people truly screw up and hold true to certain core values.

Me no. I have always been told it’s dumb to be in a relationship with anyone who cheated on you

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@Mindful I dont know that being honest but a few years ago I thought and got a sense she was in serious pain and wanted to talk to me. I was 25 and she was 19 and we were together 4 years and I found out she cheated on me but she was young so I couldn't take away her freedom at that age . I never had a ball and chain around her .

Mindful · 56-60, F

@riseofthemachine so she doesn’t know you knew? Just know she might do it again. My rule is “if you get to have sex with someone, let me know so that I can do that too” if I want too