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Have you ever realised where you went wrong in a relationship?

In the attic today. Found an old shirt an ex gave me...
I was a right immature idiot back then.
Got to a stage in my life where I was finally earning decent money with a job I could see myself progressing in and I rubbed it in her face. She was my biggest supporter. Encouraging and a good listening ear. When I needed money to get to work she helped me out, but I was too good to help her or have that same compassion when I finally 'made' it.

I do hope she found a better guy than me.

Took me many years after her to find my current lady. Nearly 9 years, I've vowed to do right by her the best I can. I was so full of myself you know I didn't even really hurt I wrote my ex off as the one with issues.
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
None of my relationships ended poorly, but one. He had abusive tendencies and it's not mentally healthy for a person to wonder why they deserved to be talked to like a dog, so I don't.

The other times we both made the mistake of committing before we were ready to commit. We just grew apart but ended peacefully. They were all good men, just none of them were meant for me.
Miram · 31-35, F
❤️ You acknowledge your mistake and you learnt from it.

Yes, I should've been more open emotionally but I think I wasn't ready at the time anyway.
SW-User
You grew and changed it. Treat the new lady like a princess to make up for it.
Sepia · 36-40, F
It takes time and a lot of lesson to realise someone's worth.
SW-User
We've all been there. Glad you learned from your mistakes.
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