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Would you buy a ring for a girl after a month of dating?

Do know they knew each other for a year but he's getting out of hand
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EmersedLizard · 22-25, M
See I knew it, thank you for siding with me
@EmersedLizard: Once I talked to a boy who gave a ring to a girl he knew for few months. He thought it is THE girl but she wasnt.
now he is at the ground cutting his arm, smoking drinking and so on.
Just because of a girl.
I mean we shouldnt expect too much from life. seriously
EmersedLizard · 22-25, M
I agree, these two are young and don't know what love is and they are rushing everything too quickly for their own good, I don't know why we deal with these kinds of things and I feel like he's no longer my friend because of this
@EmersedLizard: what?! because of that?

oh dear dont mix this up!

i have a bestfriend and i thought about end the friendship because she drinks much alcohol and she is in a relationship with her boyfriend who cheated on her.
she is super immatured.

but i changed my opinion NOW is the time she needs me the most. she has a hard difficult time.
why should we leave them at the hardest time and where they make mistakes? lets help them.
EmersedLizard · 22-25, M
You may want to try to help them but you first teach them the harsh lesson, then you pick them up, they won't learn if they are taken away from the situation so soon, if they learn the mistake they will understand why you did what you did and be glad they listened, if it isn't for learning about our mistakes then what would we be able to learn if we couldn't do so in the first place...
@EmersedLizard: the problem is that my friend really doesnt want to change and that one friend already left her and didnt want to be with her anymore.
but still she doesnt change.
i want to help her through this time. be there when this asshole hurts her again.
she has to learn alone from her own mistakes i think. it is difficult to teach someone a lesson who doesnt want to learn.

what is if your friend never comes back?