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I was about to reject a girl...but she rejected me first

So I went on a date with a girl last week who I matched with on tinder. Whilst I had an okay time, there was no real chemistry there.

I was planning on just not messaging her until she got the hint. I think that's more kind than sending her a rejection text. "Whilst I had a good time I don't think it will work".

She just sent me the rejection text though! I have no feelings towards her whatsoever but for some reason I feel kind of hurt haha and maybe even pissed off.

Any of you psychiatrists out there be able to me why I feel this way?
th3r0n · 41-45, M
Emotionally, we have a need to feel desirable, even when relating to someone we don’t desire ourselves
Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP
I agree with guys its a hurt ego.

What I would add though is that she did the right thing, by telling.

I know you didnt 1st because you didnt want to hurt her feelings. But sometimes its just best to be straight.

You dont know if you left the person guessing. Which ultimately is neither kind nor fair.
Fairydust · F
It’s still rejection even if you didn’t want to take it further, we all like to feel desired.
It's ego. No one likes rejection whether they're into the person or not.
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