Dear God, stop all the men I don't find attractive trying to get past the filter...

@Adaydreambeliever no these are real life ppl

@PaleandPolluted Ah ok.... it's an interesting idea this filter thing.. you set this filter... and you decide they are not attractive to you.. but you perhaps kindly allow them to talk to you etc? But then they seem to think this means you are interested? And they get annoyed when you say no?

@Adaydreambeliever im pretty sure they know im not interested. Im worried they are trying the lets hang out until they feel pressured to have a relationship or something like that. Had it before.

You just haven't met the right one yet@PaleandPolluted

@Itsmrsockmonkey how do i successfully dodge this

Well they should remember that you're just friends, NOT friends with benefits .if they can't be that then they are much of a friend or worth it.@PaleandPolluted