The Challenge
I hear a lot about how people say they want to be challenged by their partner. Originally I thought it might just have been a couple of people but it seems that it's fairly common.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not criticising it per se; it just confuses me a bit.
For me personally, the last thing I would want to be challenging is a relationship. There are enough things in life that are already challenging. I wouldn't want the place where I'm meant to feel secure, comforted, motivated, encouraged, supported and most of all, loved, to also be challenging. That would do my head in.
What does everyone else think?
Don't get me wrong, I'm not criticising it per se; it just confuses me a bit.
For me personally, the last thing I would want to be challenging is a relationship. There are enough things in life that are already challenging. I wouldn't want the place where I'm meant to feel secure, comforted, motivated, encouraged, supported and most of all, loved, to also be challenging. That would do my head in.
What does everyone else think?
