how would you know if he likes you or he's just being friendly towards you?

he's an introvert.. 😔 he knows how i feel for him. we used to text, chat but there are times that he would just ignore me. seenzoned my chats.. how can i tell if he's into me?

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JupiterDreams · 31-35

This is a hard one... I say just ask him. I know it's easier said than done, but really, at this point it's better to just ask. He might laugh it off but you never know until you try. Even if he does, insist on a proper response. :)

meraki

yeah really a tough one. what do u think the best way to ask him? i dont know what the right words to ask?

JupiterDreams · 31-35

Maybe just ask to have a talk with him. Like, set up a time and place, somewhere quiet like a cafe, and ease in to the question after having a friendly chat for a few minutes (like about the weather or how he's been, etc.)

Then casually say, "I don't know if you're aware but I have feelings for you and was wondering if you felt the same way? I got the feeling you did but maybe I got it wrong."
I hope that makes sense. :/

meraki

@JupiterDreams: hahah. i love it. but it is impossible for us to go somewhere coz he's totally a busy person.. as in seriously! we just talk thru chat. and in his personality he doesnt want small talks and you know what, sometimes im ashamed of my self for saying stupid things. like im like a guy making the first move.. in a sense that i would invite him to go somewhere or maybe we could hang out!😜 wahhh!!

JupiterDreams · 31-35

Mm, well, you could message him with what I suggested? Maybe that'd work. :)

meraki

@JupiterDreams: i hope it will. thank you so much for taking time to read and reply on my sentiments😊