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Confused in my relationship

Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now and have gone through a lot In that time together. Lately we have been arguing a lot because he isn’t taking care of me properly. I have mental health issues that he not only is aware of but that he has taken responsibility to help improve. After I told him how helpful he is, he promised to be better, make me happy, stress free, and selfless/considerate. Lately, he has repeatedly broken those promises. He is sometimes the only stressful thing of my day. I once asked him to come over because I wasn’t feeling good, he said no because it is inconvenient and not worth it. Times like these make me want to dump him and move on. I already daydream about guys that don’t exist in my head to make myself happy. But he helps so much (when he does) and I think that’s why I struggle to let go. I think of the few good times more. I tell myself it’s worth all the hell he puts me through. I tell myself that maybe this time he really means it. I don’t know what to do.
saintsong · 41-45, F
You’re already cheating on him in your mind and in your heart
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ABCDEF7 · M
There are two ways most of partnerships can work.
1. Both should complete/complement each other. You give what other needs*, and other one gives something that you needs*.
2. Unconditional love.

* or makes you complete

I personally tend to focus on what can I give. We should not be burden on someone. Having expectations is the root cause of sorrows.

All the best !!
AmeliaS · 26-30, F
I’m sorry but I disagree. If he isn’t the way he used to be have you ever thought it’s his mental health that’s bad? Maybe he’s going through some stuff? What if that’s the case, he doesn’t wanna hurt you more by telling you what’s happening. Then you go and dump him for it? There must be a reason for this.
itsybitsyteenyweenie · 22-25, F
Anyone who tells you that you or anything relating to you "isn't worth it," then they're not worth it. Okay, if they live so far away that it's a big expense, of course, but I assume he lives close by. Dump his ass and move on to someone who deserves you.
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Yeah mine promised to be better too but all he did better was to try and keep me stressed.

 
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