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Am I the only one that Hates the idea of open relationships? (But doesn't judge others for it)

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SW-User
saying someone elses choice disgusts you is pretty judgemental
DeathAngelS300 · 26-30, F
Huh? Dude I'm talking the idea of it , like I could never.

I could care less what someone else does in their personal lives.
SW-User
@DeathAngelS300: disgust and hate though?? strong words don't you think?
DeathAngelS300 · 26-30, F
Well maybe sure.
Forgive my choice of words :/ (not sarcasm)

Again, I'm talking about how I see it in my situation.

I just personally can't stand the thought of all of those things being shared with anyone but just the person I'm with.
SW-User
@DeathAngelS300: if I was talking to a married couple and told them the idea of marriage disgusted me...that would be seen as rude right?
DeathAngelS300 · 26-30, F
Maybe, but me personally I wouldn't be that offended if i was and you said you don't care that others do and you just hate it for yourself and could never imagine doing it for ___ reasons.
SW-User
@DeathAngelS300: my point is, it comes off as offensive. Disgust and hate are very intense things, either choose better words or maybe keep your opinions on the subject to yourself.
DeathAngelS300 · 26-30, F
Yes yes you're right...
Wow. I'm usually the one giving speeches like you are right now to others.
SW-User
@DeathAngelS300: thank you for listening, I have a lot of admiration for those who can hear another persons opinion and think about it without being defensive.
DeathAngelS300 · 26-30, F
Oh of course. What would be the point of opinions then?

Its just now I feel like an ass when I'm the one often telling the jerks on her to not be jerks lol
SW-User
@DeathAngelS300: everyone has them, they shouldn't be used to make others uncomfortable..if you can help it.