Why do people divorce ?

How do you cope ?

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SW-User

Can only speak for my own experience: Spouse's extramarital affair.

Still, I blame myself..Either I just chose the wrong person to trust, or I did something wrong, or didn't do something right.

Just the way I've always seen it even after 30 years, and always will.

nate2244 · 41-45, M

@SW-User I don't get why people cheat on each other.Sure, they say that it's the thrill of being caught,but how would they feel if the same thing was done to them.

SW-User

@nate2244 Yeah..neither do I..Witnessed so many married folks have annual extramarital flings with co-workers at out-of-town, corporate sales meetings down through the years, as if it was nothing...

I've got flaws as we all do, but unfaithfulness in a relationship with any woman, whether formally married or informally committed, is not one of them.

Just not my style.

SW-User

@nate2244 Yup agree. IDGAF what excuse they use, have the guts to get out of the marriage first instead of cheat. It makes them a liar with no honor