So i'm talking to this guy i met on a dating site

And I kinda like him, a lot. He's a pretty great person overall. And I just can't stop thinking that I'm wasting his time and he deserves way better than anything I can offer. I mean, he's intelligent, pretty good looking, and confident. I, on the other hand, am pretty average(or even below average in attractiveness) overall and have no confidence. I dunno, just don't want to waste anyone's time or get my heart broken lol
Plus he seems to have a life, I don't really have one lol

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LouLouGG · 31-35, F

1) Do spent hours together chatting about?
2) Does he initiate contact first?
3) Did you tell about your life in your bio?

Azrael2 · 22-25

@LouLouGG 1) kinda, yeah
2) sometimes
3) wdym?

LouLouGG · 31-35, F

@Azrael2 3) Yes sometimes on dating apps or sites they allow you to tell people about yourself. If you've written down what your life's about and he chose you above the others still. That's saying something.

Him initiating contact. Is saying something.

Don't think too much about it, don't compare yourself to others, be confident. That's what men like.

Azrael2 · 22-25

@LouLouGG Ah I see! Thanks for the replies! I'll keep that in mind. Also, I probably shouldn't ask him what made him swipe right, should I?

LouLouGG · 31-35, F

@Azrael2 No I wouldn't. In your case the 'what made you swipe right' would be like 'what do you see in me', since this is what the question's about, we don't want that.

Azrael2 · 22-25

@LouLouGG Ah cool! thanks again!

LouLouGG · 31-35, F

@Azrael2 But after that succesful first date you can ask it with a confident smile on your face 😇

LouLouGG · 31-35, F

@Azrael2 Or in my case, smug 😏

Azrael2 · 22-25

@LouLouGG Lmao I think I can fake some confidence xd