What behavior instantly dissolved a crush you had on someone?

So, someone I was physically attracted to was being given (presumably) a phone number by a lady he apparently wasn't interested in and the way he handled it, (quite poorly), instantly made him unattractive to me.

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Piper · 61-69, F

Specifically, once, it was when a man I was briefly involved with, rather loudly went off about "that faggot"...just because I went over to talk to a friend in a public place we were at. It was horrifying to me, and the end of my attraction.
In general, intentional cruelty or abusive behavior towards any other beings, pretty much dissolves any "crush" feelings I've had for someone.

AnonymouslyYours

Sounds like quite an insecure person...but thankfully that was discovered sooner rather than later after potentially being deeply involved.@Piper

Piper · 61-69, F

@AnonymouslyYours For sure, because there were times when I discovered someone had views repugnant to me...after being deeply "involved".