Is it hypocritical to demand fidelity from a lover whilst cheating behind their back?

Yes but it happens all the time. Usually they are acting out on their own actions.

obviously!

Yes its double standards . Either be monogamous or enjoy an open relationship

That is such betrayal, I think of this alot, ofcourse if someone has their mind set on cheating they will do it regardless and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it... but I try to be very mindful & be what I expect...

No, but its because im jealous but i want my partner to be jealous knowing other people want me but my partner cant do that to me because im insecure.

I can't understand how you can demand fidelity if you love someone. I think demanding fidelity is all about loving yourself through someone rather than loving the other person. Just expressing my opinion, not asking anyone to agree with it. I do respect all people holding their own views and morals, so long as those views are not imposed on anyone.

Extremely.

That is a great example of the definition of the word.

Yes but it might still be reasonable depending on the circs

Sounds it but maybe it could be justified

I would say yes. But I have done it !

Absolutely it is.

Yes, of course!

Yes, of course. Very!

Absolutely!

Definately

Well yes.

Duh

I'd expect honesty. So no

It is

Oh wait, totally misread that question. Ignore me

I think so yes ! But ballsy none the less !

the height of hypocrisy yes

I would say that is the very definition of hypocrisy!!

Yes it is. And being a hypocrite is the same as being as asshole. You don't want to be that.