Does it make you cringe when someone is overly affectionate to you?

I have realised I don't know how to deal with it

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YoMomma · 41-45

I avoid creepy people like that

AliceMortem · 31-35, F

It's not creepy to most people, I just have attachment issues haha

YoMomma · 41-45

It depends on of they have a right to act all affectionate or not.. If they don't then it's like eww get away from me

AliceMortem · 31-35, F

@MrsNel: oh this guy has the right to but I'm pushing him away already. I'm fucked up

YoMomma · 41-45

Hmmm

Fernie · F

@Adelh91: Everyone has different boundaries. You have yours. That isn't fucked up.

AliceMortem · 31-35, F

@Fernie: Thank you. I think it's because if you're not all over someone and having sex with them after 5 minutes you're seen as frigid in this society. It's all messed up

Fernie · F

@Adelh91: That is BS. only sheep think it's messed up..."why don't you do it the way I do it?" Do or don't do things that you are comfortable with. Keep thinking for yourself and you'll find people who really respect that and don't conform to this sick society