Why are more women suddenly interested in me?

Not many women were interested in me before but after I've been going out with a woman who is a little on the chubby side, they suddenly wanna talk to me and know if I wanna come by for dinner or go for a swim with them or something like that. Lol, what happened?

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sarabi · F

You're unavailable now.

ncgremlin · 61-69, M

@sarabi I've been unavailable and never got more attention from women

sarabi · F

@ncgremlin then 🤷‍♀️

PDXNative1986 · 36-40, MVIP

@sarabi I relate more to you that men so where there's distance between us it's always a little bit unsettling.

not you specifically but women usually.

It's just- That which is out of reach doesn't suddenly become more attractively simply because I can't have it.

In fact if anything my own psychology seems to be pretty much incapable of falling for anyone that doesn't treat me well, so somebody that basically wouldn't give me the time of day can pretty much get fucked.

I aparentally am the exception who chose an unfamiliar and foreign happiness over a familiar breed of chaos and sorrow.

ncgremlin · 61-69, M

@sarabi whether I'm with someone or not its the same. Not attention at all. I'm lucky if I find someone to be with.