Are you secretly disgusted by people who return to abusive (romantic) partners?

@th3r0n Me too. I had this discussion with a friend recently

@th3r0n @Zonussif both of you learned urselves up a little more.... You might learn tjat the average victim leaves SEVEN TIMES before they finally learn all their manipulators tricks.

Yoy migbt Learn some are threatened, blackmailed and even hunted down and socially humiliated till they come back.

Some are mentally and emotionally tortured or socially outcast and isolated till they go back.

I don't think either of you actually understand the depth and breadth of what an abuser is willing to do to keep their victim.
These victims are the abusers addiction - their supply to dealing with life - they throw all their frustrations, anger and guilt onto their victims so they don't have to face it.
And they will spend hours/days/weeks / months hatching a plan to get tjem back if need be.

Anf do ANYTHING - use children, steal, lie, threaten even use innocent people to do their work for them.!

They have no morals to break.

@OogieBoogie yes I'm aware, more than you know, I've had loved ones who went through it, thus the reason that I said I'm disgusted with the abusers and the fact that the victims go back, not the victims themselves

@th3r0n oh ok... My bad... I read into your comment more than i should - my apologies.

@OogieBoogie you're cool, it's hard to know intent sometimes