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Are you secretly disgusted by people who return to abusive (romantic) partners?

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SW-User
It's a way to cope with manipulation
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@SW-User Giving into manipulation only feeds the abuser. You have to let them know the deal and be in control. 🙂
@Zonuss and did you know that by attempting to do so then triggers fear in the perpetrator and they ramp up the abuse and threats?
They destroy, hide and use your possessions, steal Ur money, invade your privacy and counteract ANY attempt to achieve any sort of independence.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@OogieBoogie All manipulators and abusers have a weakness. You just have to know how to sink their ship. 🙂
@Zonuss and what if the perpetrator and victim are parents?
These people hide their abuse - in fact... they are usually overly generous and helpful to others, including their children.
Would you turn your children against their mother when they love her?
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@OogieBoogie I've seen children come to a breaking point. And then break free from the bondage they have with their parents. It happens.
@Zonuss and what happens when they dont?
Or they are special needs children and don't understand?

And are yoy fully aware of what type of things have to transpire for them to reach breaking point?.... It's usually violence..
Wpuld you push someone to breaking point and violence,?
Would you want your children to go through that?

Or would you try to avoid it?