Are you secretly disgusted by people who return to abusive (romantic) partners?

@Snowvixen exactly.

@Snowvixen Children don’t benefit by constantly witnessing abuse. That’s when you [b]have[/b] to find a way to leave— for [b]their[/b] sake. And it’s also what makes BDSM and “domestic discipline” relationships problematic—how is anyone on the outside supposed to know if the person is being abused, or if that’s just part of it ?

@bijouxbroussard You realize BDSM is a bedroom thing and usually done in private or with others that are OKAY with it and understand, right?

Anyhow what if the father is a cop or someone who works in law, who has buddies backing him? What choice does a mum have? They gonna side with her?

@bijouxbroussard Fortunately I have NOT come across those. I enjoy BDSM but in private. That is sad.

But if there were no children in that case she would not hesitate to leave. 🤔