is it normal or abnormal?

How far it is right your loved one checking your call list or messages and explain everything to her each and everything.

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bijouxbroussard · F

It’s controlling and it’s not normal. If she trusts you, she doesn’t need to do that.
And if she doesn’t trust you, why is she with you ?
That sort of thing doesn’t generally improve, btw. 😒

Iloveoceans · 31-35, M

@bijouxbroussard i tried my best to give her trust she needs. Nothing changed. she says she can never find a guy like me and afraid of loosing me. Completely confusing for me.

bijouxbroussard · F

@Iloveoceans Controlling behavior usually drives a person away. Basically, she either trusts you or she doesn’t. Assuming the constant demands bother you, you have the right to tell her so, and make sure she hears you. She may need counseling.