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Relationships now vs later?

When people get into relationship, it is normal to think about what the future holds. I mean, after all what exactly is the goal of being in a relationship? To build a family etc etc right?

Me on the other hand, never thought about that anymore. Not after what happened in my past relationship.
So, I met this guy over a year ago and I know if I think about our future, it won't work because we both live in completely different worlds but for now, we are so great together. I dont want to think about what's gonna happen later because honestly, I dont even know what's gonna happen to me in say, 2-3 hours from now? Lol.. And I don't want the thought of tomorrow stops me from being happy today. He thinks it won't be fair for both of us. I said, when the time comes, we deal with it. In the meantime, why can't we be the way we are and just be happy? Live in the now I always say.

I don't want to spend my life thinking about "what ifs" or "if only" and let my fear and worry control me of being happy and in love.

Am I making any sense at all? Lol 馃榾
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NigelDoes56-60, M
Not everyone entering into a relationship wants a
family.
PaintedVeil41-45, F
Apparently all my girlfriends do lol! They think Im wasting my time knowing that this guy wont be in my future. What is future anyways? Lol...
NigelDoes56-60, M
I don't have a clue.
PaintedVeil41-45, F
@NigelDoes: precisely my point. We dont know about the future. Those who marry will be separated, those who say wont ever get married are engaged 馃榾
NigelDoes56-60, M
You clearly misunderstood my response. :-)
PaintedVeil41-45, F
@NigelDoes: well by all means Sir, enlighten me! 馃
NigelDoes56-60, M
Please call me mate or dude. :-) Sir is way too formal. I simply meant that I knew by the age of 16 that I never wanted kids, and it's not that I don't like kids.
PaintedVeil41-45, F
@NigelDoes: well, i never wanted kids because i dont like them lol :D