What do you do if you can't move on, and stop liking someone?

For some reason I can't put her out of my head, even though she has a boyfriend and is happy I still feel so worthless. I know were still friends but, I feel like I missed the opportunity. It takes a lot for me to get as close to someone as I have with this girl. I am thinking of asking her about polyamory, which I don't know is right or not. Basically I want to tell her she could have us both, I am satisfied if I'm just a guy on the side if it means we're something more than friends. I don't know what to do.

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Heyitsme · 31-35, F

It's just a memory. Fill your brain with new memories hers will fade overtime but you have to work for it. Don't be pathetic.

Razoreye001 · 31-35, M

I still want to be friends with this person though.

Heyitsme · 31-35, F

Look if she's making you loose your dignity (your even contemplating being a second choice) you don't want to keep her as a "friend" You'll hurt yourself and lower yourself of sense worth. Do you like the feeling of low self esteem and self hate and loathing? Because that is what is waiting.