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What does it mean?

So I'm talking to this guy I knew him in high school but we never talked much. We recently started chatting he's flirting real hard... we met up for lunch with my friend. He flirted with me but showed genuine conversational interest in her. I don't know. What to think like does he genuinely like me or is this a she's hot let me get in her pants thing??
xmedleft · 51-55, M
He may be a player, or he may be keeping options open or he may be trying to figure out the messages YOU send like;
Maybe he thought it would be a date, then you bought a second, maybe he thought
1️⃣ you were trying to shove him off on another person,
2️⃣ Maybe you brought an extra set of eyes to feel him out and wanted to make a good impression so she'd give the go ahead,
3️⃣ Maybe he thought you were testing him on being friends with your friends. And I've been in a situation where I was on a date and a second woman was brought along to test my flexibility. I did not do well on that test, though as a silent expectation was that I'd cover everyone's lunch, but I took it as 3 means we all go dutch.
I get this since you say her flirted with you but conversed with her.
option 4️⃣ is that he might just be a big ol' flirt and does it with everybody, 4B might be that he's a hound dog after every quail he sees, but he could be a #4 w/o being a #4B.
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silver1sil · 26-30, F
Why you don't believe he genuinely likes me?
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SW-User
You don't know what this means, and are asking us or are you just basically bragging about someone flirting with you in front of your bff??? SMH
Tminus6453 · M
He might be planning for both of you, one then the other type thing
SW-User
I dont know. I came here just to see your photo and read conversations. 🙄
SW-User
nope he just a fuckboy.
silver1sil · 26-30, F
Alright want to point out the flaws I would really love to detect one 90%of the time
SW-User
if hes into you then flirting with other girls.. a lot of time when a guy is just flirting you up with out really knowing you. he just wants sex.
SW-User
I'd see that as a red flag.

 
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