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what does it mean when she says "don't judge, the truth has 2 faces"

what does that even mean when it comes to love?
GwydionFrost · 56-60, M Best Comment
"Understanding is a three edged sword: your side, their side, and the truth.”

What you think happened.
What they think happened.
What actually happened.

That's the old expression she's really referring to.

How she's using it for you?

Apparently you're holding somebody's decision or action against them and you don't know the rest of the story. That's what she's trying to warn you of.
flamewolf454 · 22-25, M
@GwydionFrost this is the best answer

dale74 · M
If you tell a story of something that happened it's from your perspective if someone else tells the exact same story it's from their perspective both stories are similar but they're from both different perspectives both are correct but the truth lies somewhere in between
Matters of love are complicated. There are two sides to every debate and the truth lies in the middle. It’s dangerous to judge based on one side of the story.
@flamewolf454 Maybe she’s not. Maybe she does like you but does not feel safe to get close because of some trauma she’s not ready to share. Sounds like she’s telling you that there’s more to the story... or should could be playing you too. That’s always a possibility. You have to decide if she’s worth finding out or not. Good luck.
flamewolf454 · 22-25, M
@JustGoneNow wow nice poem
in10RjFox · M
Like there are two sides to a coin, everything has two sides to it .. So she says don't arrive at a conclusion, by just looking at one side. Address the other side as well. Love too has two sides, your love & her love ..
in10RjFox · M
@flamewolf454 What you are doing in life now, and what your aspirations are! .. And whether you are pursuing anything but her..
flamewolf454 · 22-25, M
@in10RjFox she's my best friends so no one is chasing any one...but she has a writing career and is passionate
in10RjFox · M
@flamewolf454 yeah.. similarly she wants you to be passionate about something or help her in her career..

And maybe you can introduce her to me as I am an author n publisher looking for associate writers to work with ..
bearinthehalfwayhouse · 26-30, M
Uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh.. Might need a lil backstory on this one, pal... I AM CONFUSE!! ┬┴┬┴┤•ᴥ •ʔ
flamewolf454 · 22-25, M
@bearinthehalfwayhouse she said she likes me but she is scared to get close in this way and she is afraid of love..

so I judged her and said stuff about mixed signals and certian fucked up behavior... then she said there is 2 faces to the truth
bearinthehalfwayhouse · 26-30, M
@flamewolf454 Eeeeeeeh okay.. I can understand that.. In my opinion it's either deflection, oooooooooooooooooooor... Her past experiences might just be too much..... Then again if she straight up said "scared to get close and afraid of love" then maybe there's no hope for a relationship... Maybe she just wants some bros............ Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh.... Still, that is only my thoughts from what information you have blessed upon me so........ Take it with the smallest grain of salt. ┬┴┬┴┤•ᴥ•ʔ
Sadie14 · F
2 sides to every story.
flamewolf454 · 22-25, M
@Sadie14 yh but what does it exactly mean by 2 sides?
Sadie14 · F
@flamewolf454 Everyone has their own biased version of the same story. Listen to all sides before making your judgements.
hunkalove · 61-69, M
It means you'll be sleeping on the couch!
Lochlee · 56-60, F
3 sides to each story. His, hers and the truth.
You have to take things in context

 
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