is it true your relationships will settle after you mature or graduate high school?

I mean, some people whether they are introverts or extroverts, tend to be friend alot of people, boys and girls and are pretty popular in their school and they got all that drama going on..

as you age from being 17 all the way to 20..

life will keep the real ones and fade alot of the "passing by" relationships and make you into a more responsible and loyal person as you get into a romantic relationship in your future college days.

opinion?

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MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M

No. It's all a lie. Once you go out and you start working a regular full time job you will meet and talk to people who are married and you will start to get a better picture of the reality. You meet guys who are married and they cheat on their wives and you also meet women who cheat on their husbands and then you also meet people who are drug addicts mooching off of other people and then you also realize that everyone is out for themselves and then you realize your boss is a dickhead and then you realize your job is boring and no one cares and then you realize you're very insignificant in the large scale of things so you just pretend like it's ok even though the world is about as fucked up as it gets

Wolfram · M

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When you embrace that you’re expendable life gets so much easier. It’s only when you’ve lost everything that you’re capable of anything @blackcar]

flamewolf454 · 22-25, M

@MURD3RM0NK3Y it's all true yes..but i focus more on the early teen ages want to have fun and be friend and talk alot and after they see the reality that alot of people will go seperate ways and your mind matures and the way of thinking...

you will see life differant.. and it all connects to what u said yes

NenaRussa · 22-25, F

I would say it’s true. Essentially you’re placed in school with all of these other people and you’re stuck with them until you graduate. Everybody will start doing their own thing in the real world and your priorities will become more clear. You’ll be connected to people by choice, rather than chance.

flamewolf454 · 22-25, M

@NenaRussa yes and you find those people that color your life as you like it and not stuck chitty chatty with everyone just coz u like talking...
since everyone goes seperate ways. you find ur gang thatl stick with u..for the real times and not just being in mature in middle school..

yes it's kinda messy but I hope u get it👆

Spoiledbrat · F

The older we get the less likely we are to make good friends with just anyone. When we are young not a lot matters other than getting a long and having interest in someone. When you get older people become a bigger part of your life so you expect more.

Zaxel · 26-30, M

its very common to take things for granted while we have them. im doing it now too probably

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