Which would you pick?

@Amylynne a loved one of mine cheated on a guy who she had sex with for hours and hours, with a guy that didn't usually last 3 minutes and was her ex

I didn't get it, but she said that The guy that she was with wasn't very intense but her ex was

(happens to be the woman I want to marry and man does she have no clue what she's missing)

@th3r0n Far too often sexuality, and good affection, or not matched

@Amylynne I don't see any point in sexuality without affection, sounds like something that would Make me want to kill myself

Literally sounds like a nightmare

@th3r0n Consider too romantic positions demisexual, a person that absolutely requires emotional closeness before sexuality can be enjoyed, and Frey sexual, a person that does not require emotional bonding and can’t even be turned off by it. There are many in between those two positions

@Amylynne I would probably qualify as demisexual

No affection no interest

@th3r0n What is very good at both of those end of the spectrum people are accepting that this can be normal and healthy. Too many people seem to believe everyone should be sick mad. Too many people, seem to believe there is only one and ever only one forever. The truth lies in between and great multitude

@Amylynne I feel like lacking desire for emotional bonding means they're damaged in a bad way and it's not a good moral indication either

@th3r0n Not at all, attraction has nothing to do with morality, ethics and morality can be had by people of every possible sexual or romantic interest. I am an ethical person, and others would look at my practices as inappropriate. Do not be concerned a person might not be able to emotionally bond with a particular other they may have bones of a different kind with a different kind of person that are not sexual at all

@Amylynne actually, opinions aside, it has been scientifically proven that having sex with many partners deteriorates the ability to bond emotionally, it is neither healthy nor natural to have sex without bonding, and that it is nearly exclusively a result of psychological damage