If someone talks about dieting, should the other worry about them cheating?

I watch what I eat. I walk around the block 3 times a day. Yes I have ice cream in the evening. However I want to look good for my guy. I want him to feel proud to be seen with me. Yes I have been Big. Years ago I took it upon myself to exercise. Drink more WATER Less Soda. I want my guy to be proud to be seen with me. And he is protective. When we were in our teens my hair was waste length. I've let it grow back. I want him to feel proud.
Friend; I am not young. Still I have not abused my body, I want a long life. One not in a hospital bed.
If you're happy SMILE more. Let your mate know that you are a happy woman. Don't argue. Don't try and confuse. Give your partner a REASON to come home. If we want to have a long life, we have to prepare the way. Plant the flowers. Smile and compliment with no reason but to see a person that is there making you happy. Next month I am 65. I could find daily reasons to complain about my life. But these words don't make me happy.
Next time you see your mate, Give him/her the compliment they seek, "WOW Babe, you're HOT!" Then take control and deliver a KISS!