What's something really important you've learned about dating?

@Mamapolo2016 That makes a lot of sense. I feel like it would be challenging to accept yourself at all points like that -- not to blame it on the situation or another person saying that if not for that you'd be better/all you could be. There's a lot of power and responsibility in that mindset though.

You're really nice to talk to :)

@kismet I feel the same. (About talking to you).

If you can get yourself into a mess, you can get yourself out. 😁

@Mamapolo2016 Thank you :) And those are certainly good words to live by!

@crownedwithlaurel97 lol #mommasboy

@crownedwithlaurel97 definitely

@crownedwithlaurel97 Absolutely

@hunkalove So you just date for sex? Lol. Poor thing.

@kismet unless she buys the pizza!

@kismet I do not but apparently this man has a death wish🧐

@bearinthehalfwayhouse Lol!

@kismet Ey you said it, pimp... Some of these cats be WILDIN' yo! ┴┬┴┤•ᴥ•ʔ

@ScrewThisImDone I'm right here! lol. I'm actually looking into getting a vasectomy right now. But you're right. I've had a lot of difficulty finding women who don't want kids /and/ who seem like a good match for me in general.

How did you figure out you don't want kids?

@kismet I have autism and do well with high stress, strong smells or loud noises. I'm also sex-repulsed, which doesn't make things any easier.

@destinysfortune You and @SW-User sound like you've had some really tough times with dating. What have you done in its place?

@kismet lived my life for myself

@destinysfortune That sounds cool, but what does that mean/look like in the day-to-day? How do you know you're doing that?

@JustSaying I'm sure you (or anyone) will at some point if they really want it. It's a mix of standards, timing, and really casting your net. Sorry if things feel hard for you right now!

@kismet Yeah you are right. Standards play a mazor role and then your surroundings, not many girls are fortunate to reach at that level.so options are few and you don't wanna ruin your life for that