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How does one deal with guilt ?

Not a regret just guilt馃槩 What mindset can get rid of it fast
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Quizzical46-50, M
I find that guilt is a waste of time, unless it's because you have intentionally set out to cause hurt to someone and now feel regret.
Orlbe26-30, F
@Quizzical No regret. I knew it's gotta hurt them but had to be done
Quizzical46-50, M
@Orlbe Well, you should not feel guilt for not fulfilling someone else's expectations of you xx.
Orlbe26-30, F
@Quizzical there was a lot of begging 馃槶
Quizzical46-50, M
@Orlbe Sometimes I'm afraid that can't be helped... And frankly, it's tantamount to emotional manipulation
Orlbe26-30, F
@Quizzical You are so right. I know all this but still there...
Quizzical46-50, M
@Orlbe The begging was to MAKE you feel guilty, so your best bet would be not to give in to that feeling, and realise that you have done nothing wrong xx
Orlbe26-30, F
@Quizzical 馃槶馃槶馃槶馃槶馃槶馃馃馃馃馃馃
Quizzical46-50, M
@Orlbe 馃
Orlbe26-30, F
@Quizzical The virus has made it so difficult. Too much time in my hands to think
Quizzical46-50, M
@Orlbe I used to be a big fan of thinking, but I realised that it's too easy to get lost within ones own mind and maginfy the fears and doubts that lurk there.

Distract yourself enough, take the focus away from them, and they fade away xx
Orlbe26-30, F
@Quizzical Being here has helped a lot...And I thank you for your support 馃
Quizzical46-50, M
@Orlbe No problem at all 馃