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basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
Cause I don't have money for a date.
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@basilfawlty89 lies, you just want to drink both of the drinks on your own 🙄
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
@HannibalAteMeOut nonsense, I share with my brother and friends.
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@basilfawlty89 but you don't want to share with one more person!
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
@HannibalAteMeOut well actually the reason is past relationships and I'm scared of being vulnerable, bit the money excuse sounded better :P
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@basilfawlty89 thought so 😅 but do you really need to be vulnerable in a relationship?
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
@HannibalAteMeOut well you kinda do open yourself up to another person and that requires a lot of trust. That person gets to know your desires, fears and secrets.
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@basilfawlty89 but it's up to you how much you will reveal
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
@HannibalAteMeOut yeah but the more you reveal, the more closer you get.
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@basilfawlty89 you don't have to get too close if you don't want to
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
@HannibalAteMeOut you do if it becomes serious like marriage or long term relationship
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@basilfawlty89 still it's okay to not have something so serious
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
@HannibalAteMeOut yeah, but at that same time a part of me wants something serious you know?
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
@basilfawlty89 that would work with small steps
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
@HannibalAteMeOut I suppose. Ultimately I want someone who gets me and who I can connect with on a deep level.