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My Narcissist Ex Boyfriend Is Trying To Make Me Jealous. What would you do? (please read)

[i]My narcissist ex is going to desperate lengths for my attention. And he’s entirely too predictable. He sent me an email to my business email claiming he missed me. I never replied because I thought it was sooooo funny considering the fact that he was physically and verbally abusive and treated me like pure shit when we we’re together. All he did was try and break my spirit. We had fun but then the predictable lows, anger, infidelity and emotional cheating became too much for me to bear.

I distanced myself. I cut all contact, blocked on all socials And never looked back. It’s been 2 months since I stopped answering his calls. We haven’t spoke since.

But once he sent the message I can admit I was curious to just glance at his profile. I knew his motive was so that I can be curious to look at his page and see that he’s back cool again with a female “friend” that he originally talked so bad about and told me he was no longer cool with. He immediately used her for her for her photography and I also found that to be so predictable because he only reached out to her because he needed something from her. Narcissistic supply.

He had her blocked on social media and had to be sifting through his blocked-list looking to make amends with people he ran away. Realizing how lonely he truly is.

He also wants me to see all the things he’s up to. It’s a narcissists tactic to appear to be living this great life on social media once a breakup happens. I’m still not impressed because I know how much he embellishes his social media presence to look like he’s doing such big things when his accomplishments are quite average. But he’s very braggadocious and arrogant so let him tell it, he’s God’s gift to all women.

And honestly, me months ago would have been hurt by seeing him trying to make me jealous, but me now? I see right through him. He’s lonely and bored.

Missing what he had in me.

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—Was I wrong for not replying to him?

—Should I let the “friend” Know that he said some nasty things about her?

—How do you cope with narcissistic exes?

—What do you do to move on?

— Has it been easy to move on?

— Do Narcissists receive their karma for the hurt they caused? [/b][/c][/i]
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uncalled4 · 56-60, M
1. He's broken;
2. You can't fix him.
3 Don't talk to the friend, or the narc. BAD idea.
4. Put this in your rearview mirror. Just do it.
5. I had a narc ex and I currently deal with my gf's narc parents(yes, narcs do marry each other and serve as each other's flying monkeys), and let me tell you that while I hope all of these people live long and happy lives, the world would be better off without them.
Mrowe718 · 41-45, F
@uncalled4 I concur with everything you said. Thank you.

I definitely understand for narcs, any reaction is good enough fuel for them. Even if it’s negative attention, subliminal quotes and posts on social media, etc.

Thankfully I haven’t done any. I’ve just been carrying on like I usually do Like he didn’t exist and that’s What’s bothering him.

I remember some time ago early into our relationship (a red flag) He asked that if me and him stopped speaking, would I come back for him? I said no. And he said “wow so you wouldn’t come checking for me?” Lol I should have known right there that he was a narcissist that needs to FEEL wanted.

Pathetic human.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@Mrowe718 Oh lawd. Run.
Mrowe718 · 41-45, F
@uncalled4 😂 Already on it.