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My Narcissist Ex Boyfriend Is Trying To Make Me Jealous. What would you do? (please read)

[i]My narcissist ex is going to desperate lengths for my attention. And he’s entirely too predictable. He sent me an email to my business email claiming he missed me. I never replied because I thought it was sooooo funny considering the fact that he was physically and verbally abusive and treated me like pure shit when we we’re together. All he did was try and break my spirit. We had fun but then the predictable lows, anger, infidelity and emotional cheating became too much for me to bear.

I distanced myself. I cut all contact, blocked on all socials And never looked back. It’s been 2 months since I stopped answering his calls. We haven’t spoke since.

But once he sent the message I can admit I was curious to just glance at his profile. I knew his motive was so that I can be curious to look at his page and see that he’s back cool again with a female “friend” that he originally talked so bad about and told me he was no longer cool with. He immediately used her for her for her photography and I also found that to be so predictable because he only reached out to her because he needed something from her. Narcissistic supply.

He had her blocked on social media and had to be sifting through his blocked-list looking to make amends with people he ran away. Realizing how lonely he truly is.

He also wants me to see all the things he’s up to. It’s a narcissists tactic to appear to be living this great life on social media once a breakup happens. I’m still not impressed because I know how much he embellishes his social media presence to look like he’s doing such big things when his accomplishments are quite average. But he’s very braggadocious and arrogant so let him tell it, he’s God’s gift to all women.

And honestly, me months ago would have been hurt by seeing him trying to make me jealous, but me now? I see right through him. He’s lonely and bored.

Missing what he had in me.

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—Was I wrong for not replying to him?

—Should I let the “friend” Know that he said some nasty things about her?

—How do you cope with narcissistic exes?

—What do you do to move on?

— Has it been easy to move on?

— Do Narcissists receive their karma for the hurt they caused? [/b][/c][/i]
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AnukBinary · M
Narcissists are a disease that cannot be cured.. Continually dealing with them would be like trying to wash oil off your hands using oil. Honestly the best thing that you could do is maybe warn his new girlfriend.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@AnukBinary even then unless she comes and asks is asking for trouble
Mrowe718 · 41-45, F
@AnukBinary I don’t think she’s his new girlfriend, he’s such a mental case he honestly just has people that pity’s him. (Honestly). He runs away all his friends. I think she felt bad for him which is why it was so easy to “forgive” and hang with him, she knows how angry he can get, considering he told her off before he cut her off since last year. But letting her know the nasty things he’s said, may or may not work in my favor.

But I think anyone would appreciate knowing they’re in the presence of a user and a liar that said nasty things about them.
AnukBinary · M
@cherokeepatti this is true. Just walk away from everything and not get bit again
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@Mrowe718 yes but if she goes back and tells that will be trouble and you would be surprised at the women who will do this.
AnukBinary · M
@Mrowe718 it tears me up to see how narcissists f*** us up so bad they still are able to take our power away, even after they are gone. We allow them to do so by letting anything they do after us affect us.. They create such co-dependent behavior in us that we obsess over our own confusion do to their actions.
Mrowe718 · 41-45, F
@AnukBinary this is so true. Any reaction is supply to them and I’m learning that I need-not give in to the fuckery because they are demons that feed off of pain.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@AnukBinary They are so self centered that they are extremely destructive in a variety of ways. It leaves a permanent mark in our psyche, but also,if we are smart serves as an alarm for the rest of them
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@Mrowe718 I do believe that they have manifested demons
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@cherokeepatti And that’s one reason they can suck her energy from you.