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I wish my ex would give us another chance, but he said that ship has sailed.

I started crying a bit, and he got upset that I was upset. I guess, I've been thinking about other things lately, and I haven't really wanted to believe there wasn't any hope we'd get back together.

I don't really understand why he won't ever give us another try. He said that he's still attracted to me, but he can't ever see us being together again. He said things happened that changed his perception of me, and that is the reason. I don't get it.

I notice little things he says, too. There's a house for rent on my street, and he has mentioned inquiring about the rent twice. I can't imagine him even considering living a few houses down from me and not still be interested in me. Also, one night on the phone, he was talking about wanting to move. I said, I might be willing to move to such and such place one day, and he responded with "Ok. Let's do it. Let's move." Of course, I can't move right now, so I didn't respond. My point is why even joke about things like that if you couldn't [b]EVER[/b] see us together again?
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Sapio · 46-50, M
He cares for you but he resents you because you hurt him. And though he is still attracted to you, he knows or feels that together history will repeat itself or that you'll possibly argue and fight.

With the distance you two currently have, things are civil. But in his mind, it probably won't be the same if you're back together.